Frequently Asked Questions
What goes on at a FootMenNYC Party?
The party is first and foremost a social event. where men who share common interests can relax, meet and greet. The only men at the party are those who have a M/M interest in Feet, Footwear, Tickling, or just appreciates, and desires a great foot massage. As the socializing continues, guys pair off. Sometimes it's one-on-one play, sometimes it is group play. Everything happens organically. Lots of massage, worship, tickling, sniffing, licking. This goes on for the duration of the party.
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What kinds of guys come to the party?
Our guys are as diverse as you will find in NYC. We welcome all ages 18+. All ages, sizes, shapes, backgrounds, and interests. We pride ourselves on our diversity, and the fact that our regulars are the most welcoming and friendly men you will ever meet.
How many guys come to the party?
Every party is different, but we usually get between 20 and 25 guys at each party.
Is there a dress code?
We have no dress code. Party-goers will arrive wearing jeans, sneakers, shorts, sandals, flip-flops, gym attire, singlets, business attire, formal wear. We want you to be yourself!
I'm into guy's feet/footwear/tickling, but I'm mostly str8-identified. Will I be comfortable?
We never ask how you define your sexual orientation, so unless you tell us, we won't know. We welcome ALL men who share our interests, and want to join us.
What if I'm really shy?
Most guys who come to a FootMenNYC Party are nervous and shy their first time. We understand that many of you will be externalizing your Foot, Footwear, or Tickling interests for the first time. Many of you have only expressed and shared those interests on anonymous chatrooms and websites. It's a life-changing moment to integrate your real life with your previously secret passions. It's what our parties exist for, and we are ready to celebrate with you. Again, our regulars are ready to make your first party a wonderful experience.
How will others know what I'm into?
As FootMenNYC is a social gathering, the guys usually ask each other "What are you into?" Your host can also help you make connections for play. Just ask.
What if I'm not into feet, but I love a great foot massage?
Fantastic! You've come to the right place!
If I'm nervous, may I just hang out and watch?
Absolutely! Nobody is ever forced to participate in the action. We do encourage social participation, and we are always ready to introduce you to our regulars. Usually, the first 'hello' is the hardest thing.
Are there any photos from the party?
All FootMenNYC Parties are strictly NO PHOTOGRAPHY events. Our parties take place in a private space, and as many of our attendees are not open about their Foot, Footwear, or Tickling interests, we want them to feel safe and protected.
Do you hire models for your party?
FootMenNYC has NEVER hired models for the parties. We have a 3,000 guy mailing list, all guys actually into Feet, Footwear and Tickling. No need to hire models.
How Can I Help Support FootMenNYC?
FootMenNYC is supported by donations, mostly by those who attend the parties.
If you can't join us, please make a discreet donation of any amount through